I think you're right. She is very manipulative and a world-class cake eater. And, I honestly don't think I can hold up much longer, especially given that there is another person involved. I think it's fairly obvious that she can't even consider me as an option when someone else is in the pic. She does things like say she wants to go on family trips, she even should me these mini-key chains with the names of the two other kids we were planning on having. She says and does all the right things around me so that she can have a good free-wheeling time, and then when she thinks I'm not listening, she tells her friends that she sees no future for us and that she is moving on in September. I'm really beginning to realize that what she is telling her friends is the truth and what she does in front of me is strictly manipulation and selfishness and I'm just sick of it. I think I'm going to have a conversation with her today and let her know that I'm going to put the house up for sale and that I want a divorce. I just don't see any other options. I do still love her and would love to have a great marriage with her, but those feelings are definitely one-sided and that just isn't enough.
