Lady you are right doing this one step at a time. Seems funny doesn’t it my old friend that you and I seem to be keeping pace on both of our sich. Let him walk around in that memory box and miss ya. In his mind he has you concerned. Maybe its time to try a different tunnel, and let him feel the loss of you. If he doesn’t want to commit as a husband, don’t give him the benefit of s wife. This means no tears and no sex and just plain politeness. There ma come a time when you will not have him in your life, and if that’s the case act like its right now. Protect yourself and protect your kids and let him see a future were you are not around. If that’s not a very nice picture for him then he will try to turn it around. If he can stomach a world with out his wonderful wife Lady B.. Then he’s a different person then you met, and you WILL find a better one. All your GAL work will see to that. Plus you will be a better partner to the next lucky man, as you will be wiser. Oh and he will still be unhappy with his baggage. And if he gets re-married he will be 60 percent likely to get D’ed again as he never came to grips with his role in your M.
