they were stalling maybe they stall out of fear as H really dont know what they are doing in their fog
So true,Peace...I also think my H through out this D suit as another stab at me to make me go balistic, take the ball and do all the work to give him a D.
H had a little A...thought it would make me so irate that I would kick him out...then he could blame me for his leaving.
H had me meet with a MC we were seeing a little bit...to have her tell me about a seperation and/or divorce. H thought that would make me so irate that I'd kick him out.
I got mad at the MC for not asking a single thing of my H about why he was planning such destructive things to his wife and three small children. She just sat there and asked H what he wanted to do. When he figured out what he wanted to do...she'll help him/us through it! The MC made me irate...I just saw my H as insane and went home.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home