So, unless you hear from your lawyer....don't call him. Just let things flow along. If you don't want a divorce, let it be and let nature take its course w/o any interference from you.
Good...99% of the time...I can do just that! It's a relief for me to take that stand.
I wish I didn't let H's failure to think of his kids on New Years...again....get to me.
H did text s14 at midnight 'Happy new year...I love you'.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home
