They all do the same crap, don't they! They are unremorseful, self-centered, and absolutely egotistical. I think from both of ours sits it's very obvious that we are married to some serious cake-eaters who want it all and on top of that don't want to look like the bad guy. Do you all have very good family times? Did you have very good times together as a couple? If so, I think you should have confidence in those moments and simply give him the curb time he deserves. If he loves you maybe he'll see what he is giving up and come back. If not, to hell with him. I'm sorry to sound so harsh this morning, if you read my post you'll see where I'm coming from. I'm just sick to death of this crap from our spouses! You have to know what you can live with, but don't just hold on to him out of fear. Good luck.
