Sophie, If your h raises the question again about the responses, advise him in a gentle tone to speak to his lawyer. Your h should not be calling your lawyer. In fact, your lawyer will advise him that he cannot speak to him as you are his client.
If I were you, I'd step away from it and not get into any discussions w/him about it. Refer him to his lawyer. Holidays due tend to screw up the courts, etc. Then again, lawyers will drag things out....I know that my xh's did because she knew he was in crisis, bouncing off the walls and yes, she saw $$$.
So, unless you hear from your lawyer....don't call him. Just let things flow along. If you don't want a divorce, let it be and let nature take its course w/o any interference from you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
