2008 = Crazy Year (Havin Fun @ 21?)

[Hope4us]

Lost, It's time your kids know the WHOLE story, if you haven't told them yet. No pussy footing around. THE WHOLE UNABRIDGED TRUTH. I know this is obvious to you, but she's doing the infidelity spin to them to try and make you out to be the bad guy.

Don't let this crap go on any longer. Your kids DESERVE to know the truth, especially since she's bringing them into the situation as she is.

Good job on the lawyer reply. From what you've written, it seems she wasn't ready for that and had to go into angry/attack mode once you replied that way.

I agree with both you and Karen that you'll (we) get accused of things that are really the things they are doing. Accusing you of being controlling? Give me a break. I remember my W giving me the "you're so controlling" speech and I replied "if you want to accuse me of being controlling because I have a problem with my W sleeping with a married man, I'm guilty as charged. And I can live with that". She just stared at me with that one. Go ahead and use that line if you'd like. I don't have the copy right on it.

Just keep your cool like you did so well.