This may be a milestone (for her):

Today at kidswap X mentioned she owes her L $2,000 and recently got a nasty letter from him.

For the first time she didn't blame me or become angry about the money she owes her L.

To date her legal fees have been almost 5 times that of mine.

"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.