Happy New Year Trusting. I do think your h is depressed too. The holidays I am sure did not help. He will come around again. It takes time for this depression to be lifted.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"