just a quick lawyer question

[Sophie]

Amy, I'm in Spotsylvania County...L is in Fredericksburg.

One question...whether I responded or not...wouldn't it take a 'go ahead' of some sort from H to go forward?

H does not have any money for a L....his parents/family won't help either.

I'm pretty sure his L is a friend of a friend and has been on an hourly rate so far...

We don't have anything substantial to split up...except a house.

I asked H what he wanted...I mean... let him speak...I am very well trained to say nothing.

H said he didn't want the house, he doesn't want the kids and I to lose the house and he wants equal custody but doesn't know what would be best for the kids...he really doesn't know.

H has shown no interest in being a parent since BEFORE he had his little A and after that sizzled, moved out.

I am very, very tired of where he is...although I still find a way to empathize with MLC...I have learned a lot from your posts on Frank's thread.