Well, it's 10pm and I am home. J and I had one drink at a Whisky Bar, and a coffee at Starbucks a couple hours later. The rest of the time we just walked around the city and talked. We talked about my M, and his recent break up. We talked a lot about work. He likes old movies, and single malt scotch, but doesn't drink to excess. He knows how to ballroom dance! (I once talked H into Swing dance lessons. It wasn't pretty!) He loves road trips even if it's only overnight someplace. His D16 is the light of his life and she is definitely Daddy's girl. He talks to his mother every day (because she calls him). He made a quick phone call to her when we were walking so she wouldn't worry when he wasn't at home. He says he has never been unfaithful in any relationship he has ever had. He's never even asked a woman on a date. All relationships he has had, the women have pursued him. Why I asked? He's says he's too shy and couldn't take the rejection. He seems to be really just a genuine guy, who is understanding and non-judgemental and a little lonely. I think I have found a friend. We seem to have a lot of common interests although we have had very divergent lives.
So, I did have a good time. But I headed home after 4 hours and am ready to go to bed and maybe read some. Boy, aren't I the party animal!
TJ
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