I think I should mention one other thing...I don't want this to move forward...so, I hope he doesn't contact his lawyer or mine!

Mostly, I don't want to deal with the emotions of this right now, and I know my H has not given any thought to what this is going to entail. H has no idea what he is getting into...and I don't feel like paying money right now...plus, I'm not convinced I want a D.

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home