Thanks Amy...It helps to see we are in the same state of VA.
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He still shouldn't be communicating with you at all about the legal stuff unless he is proposing a settlement. That's why ya'll are paying attorneys.
I am unsure of what it would mean for him to propose a 'settelment'...
In his complaint, I pretty much disagreed with everything...and implied that we would move forward, if need be, on the grounds of desertion....among other things.
My H's complaint, I guess, was the basic...give me everything complaint to make a first step.
I think I typed most of it out in my other thread...I think you already know about all of that.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home