Standing on the Edge

[native]

MSM,

I did not think your post as crass or anything other than insightful.

The accusation of me controlling her came when she was already distancing herself from me, though before the bomb.

In retrospect, she knew more than she was telling, or knew more than she knew she knew... if you want it in a more convoluted fashion.

'If it was when times were bad, then it's over-reacting & just throwing as much sh*t at you as possible. I guess, when things start to go bad, the rules change (ie. not asking when you are going to be home). When things are good - no problem & no offense taken - right???'

This makes as much sense, more even, than any other interpretation of the accusations of control.

Again, very insightful and I think its spot on.