Hi FitChik, Sorry to hear about your situation... I'm sure you have a lot of tumultuous emotions going on. It would be hard enough without the threat of the "big D." The only advice I have is that you focus on Michele's advice regarding "The Last Resort Technique" and, most of all, on taking care of yourself. It sounds like contact with H will be pretty limited for awhile... just be friendly but cool, and don't discuss the divorce OR the marriage. Michele's book "The Divorce Remedy," in particular, has solid advice for how to handle a last ditch situation involving physical separation, although there's no guarantees (not by a long shot). If he wants divorce that bad, he will get it whether you like it or not, but I suspect him arguing with you about it is his way of trying to get you to make him feel better about his decision, and why would you want to do that?
Me: 33 Her: 39 M: 8 T: 10 K: D15, S4 Separated 10/30/08. My current thread
