Most new years eve's in my life have been spent hanging around the house, doing my best to stay awake so that we could all whoop and holler for about 30 seconds at midnight, drink a glass of that horrid sparkling grape juice, then drag ourselves off to bed.
Nostalgic, perhaps.
High times that my life is empty without? Not really.
These marital messes cause most of us to default to anything from the past being glorious, fulfilling, and something that our life is less without.
A new years eve home alone is not the most horrible thing in the world.
But, as others have pointed out, there is also nothing wrong with doing something totally new and out of the ordinary.
The common theme running through all of this is that YOU now decide what you do, who you do it with, and when you do it.
One day, hopefully soon, you will recognize what an AWESOME opportunity that is. You will stop seeing this new life as nothing but disappointment, wreck, and ruin, and you will begin trying to get something good out of it.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
