Oh poop...I SO don't want to be his mother..

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you are acting like his mother and not his wife and/or friend. Your h has told you that he doesn't want to play family, so leave him out there to play single for a while.


How come he can play family one weekend, then not the next???

I know the answer...it still just blows me away.

He started to blame me for not seeing his kids...and that really irks me!! I makes NO effort...it is very hard to say nothing to such false, and ugly, accusations.

Where is the difference between being a 'mother' and being an adult woman standing up for what is right?


Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home