you are acting like his mother and not his wife and/or friend. Your h has told you that he doesn't want to play family, so leave him out there to play single for a while.
How come he can play family one weekend, then not the next???
I know the answer...it still just blows me away.
He started to blame me for not seeing his kids...and that really irks me!! I makes NO effort...it is very hard to say nothing to such false, and ugly, accusations.
Where is the difference between being a 'mother' and being an adult woman standing up for what is right?
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home