Sophie, I think your h has heard from his lawyer and he's hoping that you'll open up and tell him exactly what you are planning to do. Then again, his lawyer may have been attempting to contact your h and he's been dodging him. I wouldn't believe a word that comes out of his mouth right now.
BTW, do not contact your lawyer, as you will be racking up more $$$ in the way of expenses. If his lawyer hadn't heard from yours, trust me, he would be calling him and you would be getting bills for the responses.
Let it be. Do not take his bait.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
