I'm thinking if you're both dating, what's the point of marriage really? If you want to date, I also think sex will happen if you do that. I mean I think it's unrealistic to think it won't. If you're ready to move on with your life, then I think you should file. You could give it a certain time limit (not that you give him but in your own mind) when you would be ready to file also like 3 months, 6 months, or a year or whatever. I will get divorced sometime this year, and I'm in no rush. We'll have been separated for at least a year if not longer. I see it as time to get healthy, happy, and get my act together so I can have a healthy R in the future. I think slow is good in this process...of course it's my 1st time going through this, but just my feeling about it. Karen
