2008 = Crazy Year (Havin Fun @ 21?)

[lost_in_space]

Thanks (((Tawnya))). It is getting harder to hang on.

Here is what transpired.

* W calls k's in amd waits for me

* w asks what my proposal is

* I say I do not want to talk with k's here - they were devastated yesterday

* w says that the C said the k's shoul be be involved; says they eant to here

* I say no, they don't need to hear this; w disagrees (of course)

* I say that given the process (legal) you have started, I have been advised by L not to discuss this; my response will be filed soon

* w says nothing is started legally (huh?) And she can stop it anytime- so what is my proposal?

* back and forth - I say nothing other than I cannot answer

* W says "see k's, on dad's schedule. Making you suffer more. If you were his prime concern this would be over by now. Lost, kids have made it quite clear they do not want to live like this anymore. Why do you want to be married?"

* W blamed me for all of this. I say it is her decision her consequences. She can leave if she wants to. She asks k's if that is what they want. PUT THEM RiGHT IN THE FRICKIN MIDDLE AGAIN. I did ask her to stop saying it was abusive to k's. W said again I haven't agreed with this cuz I don't believe in d or want a D - so I said why should I bend over backwards because you want this to happen.

* W is certainly deflecting guilt here.

More of the same continued. W said there is no way I could have k's best interests at heart. I challenged that, but was composed in front of k's.

W said I backer her into a corner by not meeting her half way so she had to go legal. I said now that you have started it is with the L. W talked about co-parenting, etc etc.

You get the drift. I remained relatively calm and didn't take a lot of crap - sttod up to her garbage defending myself in front of k's.

I am taking k's for supper tomorrow - we will chat... Need to make sure truth is there.

:sad: