Detach>Worse>Weird>Better ???

[Sophie]

Well...H avoided another new years eve with kids/me/family...that's okay...I dont' care for my sake. And now, the kids have made plans with their own friends.

I probably backslid but I called H to make sure he didn't want to be with the kids...and he picked up on my edginess and got really defensive.

H said he didn't care about new years and was going to his buddies house to play cards, that he did NOT want to go to a party.

I said something about his lack of effort to spend time with the kids...that I did not want to be the one in his way...why didn't he think to be with his kids if he wants full custody????

Then, I said that I don't have any money to pay him for anything because all my christmas gift money from my mom was sitting in a Lawyer's office.

Get the...

H asks me if I have a lawyer????!!!

I said I had 21 days to get one and respond to papers the sheriff brought me. Didn't you lawyer send you a copy or tell you???

H said no, he hadn't heard a thing/

How can that be??????? MY L responded and I got a copy the day before Thanksgiving...How in the heck does H not know about my response?

Oh...and the reason H didn't come over for Thanksgiving was because as he said, 'He didn't want to play 'family'....

what????

Okay...I really, really, really get what you tell me, Snodderly, that H is out of his mind. He has never seemed more insane, a lunatic, than he did in the short conversation we had.