Sorry you are so isolated, Hooz. I complained to my H recently (I know, bad DB, but I don't think I'm DBing anymore anyway) that he had lots of pals, but no one ever calls me. He said I had lots of people who care for me. I replied, so where are they? He said they feel awkward and don't know what to say to me, so they call HIM to ask after me. WTF?!