I'm glad to see that you went to your brother's. You will need to slow down a bit and do not be too hasty with her. She's still quite fragile and will need to be handles w/love from afar for a while.

Happy New Year! I do believe it's going to be a very exciting year...2009...for everyone!

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.