Now She's Confused.

[glamgirl]

Wow Jeff I am so excited for you. Go on with your plans for New Years Eve. After all there may be many New Years ahead. Let her do what she had planned to begin with. Might not be as fun now without you.

I am not even sure of the ski thing on Sunday. Let her lead and take one day at a time. Don't overwhelm her with your presence.

Listen, listen, listen validate and then listen again.

Holy Crap is right. Good work! I hope the New Year brings happiness for the both of you.