Me too! D9 told me today that Dad had 2 cakes, OW gave him one also and a big balloon. I said snarkily, Isn't she nice?" and D9 said yeah, but not as nice as you. I kind of feel detached and then little stuff or comments make it tough. Although don't you think it has gotten a little easier? If I had heard that a year ago or even 6 months ago, I think I would have cried and eaten everything chocolate in the house (not that there is much anymore) but no I didn't. So baby steps right?
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I watched a bit of 'Hope Floats' last night. Paraphrasing what she told her H, I got the best part of my wife. I got two beautiful girls. And I have my stepson.
I watched part of it too! And then they had it on twice and I missed the first part the 2nd time too! I was thinking about netflixing it so I can see the whole thing. I was thinking that too. I mean I got the better part of the deal, really b/c I have my two kiddos and H has an R with a skanky ho. Who lost out on that one???
And that's the thing even though our WAS may marry the OW that broke up our marriage ( well the two of them did I guess), how likely is it that marriage will be happy long-term or last? I mean we had good starts to our marriages, and you know how that worked out! And they started with cheating, lying, breaking up families, etc. The OW in my case has already been married 3 times, do you think that all of a sudden my H will become the perfect H for her? And if these guys want skanky hos then obviously we are not the right women for them!
I kind of feel detached and then little stuff or comments make it tough. Although don't you think it has gotten a little easier? If I had heard that a year ago or even 6 months ago, I think I would have cried and eaten everything chocolate in the house (not that there is much anymore) 
but no I didn't. So baby steps right? 
