Hey Nik-
I agree that I haven't done enough in the way of personal growth this past year. H and I are supposed to "talk" tonight. It could go either way, I think.
I have SO much more to tell, but I don't think that now is the right time.

When he was talking about how we 'needed' to separate so he could try out this music thing, it was more in the past tense. SS is definitely holding a mirror up to H. There appears to be a bit of a shake up going on. The other day we came back from going out and RM had gotten there before us and we came in and it stunk like pot and SS groused and then I said to H "Dude, it reaks in here" and H says "I told RM to keep his door shut.." And I just looked at him like 'uh huh. what's your point?' and he said "I need to talk to him again."

Just to clarify one thing-- I hadn't said anything about the "Single" designation until yesterday afternoon when I was also talking about the pictures. I haven't been back to FB, so I don't know if he has been back and/or changed anything.

I hope you have a great time tonight! And I am really looking forward to hearing how you are going to 'get back on the wagon' with regard to your own personal growth. Is this in addition to, or in lieu of figuring out a bigger goal for you and your H?

HAPPY NEW YEAR! Hugs to YOU!! you have been a real blessing for me this past year+.
Here's to a much better 2009!


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing