S, I say kind things about you because I mean them. This is me. What you see is what you get. I speak the truth, always.
Anyway, I do not know for sure if he is still having an affair. I would have to say that he is, he still goes away when he does not have to. But I do not knw for sure.
My son does not know about the affair. There is no outward strife in the house.
I have to file because I am in a no-fault state, and because he has amassed $70,000 and counting in credit card debt, of which I owe half and he was not paying down the mortgage for 3 years. I have put myself and my son into dire financial straits not filing.
I have no intention of leaving my home. Sadly, it will have to be sold. This after my h convinced me to use a small inheritance from my mother to fix up the house. Something I waited 20 years to do and after I did that, he dropped the bomb.
Anyway, thank you again for posting. And I hope you and yours have a happy new year.
