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Hi Michelle...stopping by to catch up. Sounds like you are handling all of this with dignity and grace.

I do have a question though. If H came back right now and wanted you back, would you go?

You have come so far, and done so well. I know this isn't something you wanted, but I saw someone who posted that you and your H have come so far past the R that maybe, just maybe, this is for the better.

In the meantime, enjoy R. I am glad you have found someone that your puppy likes ;\) and you are enjoying spending time w/!!!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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((((((((Michelle))))))))))))

I hope you have a fabulous New Year full of the promise of new things to come!

When will you take the bar?


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
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PA5/07
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D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!

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Bar exam is February 24, 25, 26. 8 to 5 each day. Ugh.

H is not in a position where I could work on anything with him I think. He still doesn't see how much work both of us would have to do, and unless he was willing to commit to really giving things a try, not seeing anyone else, being very transparent with me, continuing his IC, and starting MC...no chance.

Don't see that happening.

H IMd me tonight. He's broke and moving back in with his parents. Thanks goodness he has a place to move to. His family is great.


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Michelle,


What happened to the "woman" he was seeing who cut herself repeatedly? I am really surprised that that didn't work out!

As I said to you last year, he is going to crash and burn and really hit bottom. This is the beginning of a huge corkscrew into the earth! You on the other hand, have got it "all goin' on"!

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Hi Michelle, Thanks fro posting on my thread.

Happy New to You!! Sounds like you have some fun plans for tonight!


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So far as I know he hasn't talked to ex-OW in months. Finally got rid of her. LOL I'm so surprised that didn't last too! Not. LOL

Yeah, he seems to be spiraling again. At least his family is there to pick him up.

Tonight should be fun! Looking forward to Nikki's party. \:\) And having someone to kiss at midnight!


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Oh.........someone to kiss.......dreaming now.........mmmmmmm.........nice............

Oh well, back to reality.


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D final 11/17/08
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I will be kissing my pillow....LOL even D12 is w/ XH...

I can dream I am kissing Matthew McConaunghey (sp????) ;\)


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Sounds good........he's pretty darned hot!


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PA5/07
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D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!

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Hell yeah! Those kind of dreams are the best kind!


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