I've Come Full Circle 23

[hopeful4her]

All I can say, kat, is that he is no longer your H and you are no longer his W.

I suppose all you CAN do is deal with it. Nothing more.

I've told myself and the wife that if he is what she wants, then D me and get it over.

We're still married and the scary thought is, if YOU'RE still having those same feelings and actually divorced, then I can see myself having those same feelings, even though WE may be divorced some day.

I reckon, just take his latest niceness for what it is. Him being nice, but he is still in his own world.

I'm sorry it still hurts.

And Jeff, that's exactly how I'm looking at things. I mourn the death of my 'wife'. I will always miss her. We had a beautiful thing.

I watched a bit of 'Hope Floats' last night. Paraphrasing what she told her H, I got the best part of my wife. I got two beautiful girls. And I have my stepson.