Hey LD, just stopping by adn seeing how you were holding up, little too much faith talk for my pref, sorry.

You're doing well, and I agree, the hardest part is keeping the emotions in check. But do exactly what you say, think she is gone, and it' won't husrt SO bad, but it still will, it always will. From my experience it's first the pain of losing your spouse, but then as that fades, it's the pain of the children losing their mother and the family being torn apart.

Definately carry forth in keeping busy, the busier you stay the less you think about it and the easier it gets to handle.

Have a safe and Happy New year. Get this, my W asked if we could spend it together! \:\) mind you we haven't been on very good terms lately (started a new thread on this).

Keep hanging brother!

dday


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11