Lonely D,

I think your doing very well, there is one piece of advice I cannot get out of my head and it's so simple but so right it's what AmyC said

"I would say, live as if she's gone for good. But love as if she is due back any day."

I'm 2years down the road in this and it's not easy, New Years eve for me is hard as we met 22 years ago on New Years eve and then 2 years ago on New Years eve my wife had a miscarriage. Two weeks later I got the bomb.

I really have had to hand it over to God, I believe we will be back together someday but I have to live for me and my children.

I'm not one for big posts but sometimes things just scream out at me and AmyC's quote of a few words speak volumes.

Take care
Charlie


Me 39
W 39
D8
S5
Married 13yrs
Together 20years
EA June 06
Ilyninlwy Jan 07
Seperated Jan 07