Dude, the sooner you guys are separated, the better. She needs to go, whatever the cost. Even if you have to pay for it.

Your sitch is a ticking time bomb.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."