Remember that W was furious at me at the time too... I agree that meeting emotional needs is much more important for women, and especially W. W REALLY needs a shoulder to cry on right now.
I'm not a female, but let me explain my thinking on it, and why I think it's easier to compete. If it is smoldering hot sex for a 31 year old woman hitting her sexual peak - how do you compete with that? I mean you could buy some bikini briefs, but she'll probably just laugh. Then, there's the problem of actually HAVING sex with W to compete!
You can gradually convince her that you are just as sweet and nice - especially as the polish starts to wear off, but how do you "gradually" convince her that sex with you would be better?
The "nicest guy" though: 1. Set up on pedestal VERY high 2. How long will this last? OF COURSE, you're going to be super nice in the first 6 weeks you date someone... 3. Um hello, being nice? How else is he going to get into her pants - that will shut MY W off like a faucet. 4. She is also putting all of HER nicest stuff forward for him, and her polish will wear off eventually.
I see your point and can understand you position...
I may be getting myself into trouble here and I'm hoping SMW, Breakawy, Veronica or anyone can back me up here......
In general, most women don't get "horny" like men do. For a women, it's emotional fulfillment. Smoldering hot sex is directly related to how a woman feels emotionally. Women entering their sexual prime is derived from the chemical in their bodies changing. Alright, before I get into trouble "labeling", let's leave it at "Women want to be emotionally fulfilled, thus making them horny".
Men, have a "fill tank" and it's a physical thing. Damn, I wish I could explain this better but here is my best stab.... Men, get "backed up" sort to speak. You produce seaman and when you hit the "full tank" you need to release it. Sounds primitive so we'll leave it at, "For men, it's a physical (or biological thing).
Read Men Are From Mars or something to get better understanding. I'm having a terrible time explaining.
You're right, he's trying to sleep with her. Most men will say/do anything to get some action. Especially now a days. Listen to single guys talk.. "working chicks", "game", "playin"... Doesn't sound like honesty, does it?
I agree that meeting emotional needs is much more important for women, and especially W. W REALLY needs a shoulder to cry on right now.
