Partner left after 9 years - now what?

[mishka422]

((((Ali)))))

YOU are not inadequate! HE IS! He knows it and that's why he's staying away from you. Honestly Al, he is one messed up individual and would not be good for you right now. You have changed and grown so much in this last year, at his own admission, and he doesn't see how he could fit into your world now the way he is. That's what Gabe told me too, I have all these new friends around me and he "wouldn't fit in to my new way of living". Lame excuse, but that's what he was feeling. I have a feeling BF is the same way.

Have a marvelous time out tonight and DON'T let thoughts of him take you down. No looking back allowed, only forward to new things to come.