Seriously Ral, this is one of those real pieces of advice that everyone should be saying to you. STOP FORCING HER TO TALK ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP! It will NOT go well for you or her.
You are pushing for answers, and when you do that to someone you usually get the BAD answers.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK