Hello Carlos, Thanks for the thoughtful response. I really appreciate it.
As you know it's hard not to focus on our ex's as we still love them and want that love returned. For me this happening has been the best thing ever to happen. It has caused me to look so deep in myself and most importantly get rid of so much crap. I checked myself into therapy and went for 7 months. I read everything I could about relationships etc. What it left me with is a more kind, appreciative, compassionate life. Like you, I am in transition as far as my career. I too want to do something of value. I had been so focussed on external stuff in the past.
As I move forward I see my wife push and pull a bit. Some days she is kind and then I think I set her off. Today we had a nice email exchange about the kids and a few things she is into. She mentioned that she would be happy to sit down with me and tell me some of her latest interests. She also returned my email hug for New Years. This is all hard on all of us. For me I would love to know if she is softening because she feels I have accepted our divorce and moved on or she is softening as she is feeling something towards me. Please go easy on the 2x4s, I am just human.
Thoughts?
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
