I am glad you will get out and do things for you, but I still think you need to make some concrete decisions about your future with H and follow up on them. Are you willing to be the backup plan for H while he waits for OW? That is pretty much what is happening and the past history has proven that he will not change and will keep doing this. Remember how painful it was to watch him walk out the door knowing he will be with OW? I would hate to see you go thru this.

I think you need to do a complete 180 on him. Not for him, for you! Honestly, I think he needs a place to stay and be with D4 until OW is ready to flee her M. Please don't be that doormat.

Sorry to be so harsh but your H makes me sick. He is such a cake eater.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!