T..... babyboy, you are WAY too young to have to worry about passing a physical. Unless the damaged pinky finger would play a roll?
It sounds like you had a rough day yesterday. Well I'll drink with ya! Then we can compare physical horror stories! I have a MILLION Dollar tan on one of my breasts! Can you top that?
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
when she puts her determination (of which she has endless amounts of)in a good direction rather than a bad one she can pull anything off
and she does have a decent amount of humility
afterall ..she was at least asking me for my opinion yesterday. Half asking and at least half if not more than that telling me what it should be. And I have very strong convictions (as she does). All I know is that mine have much to do with my faith and my R with Jesus. Her's ..don't know on that one.
T-maybe it is. Let me tell you a quick story. When i was young I weighed 98 pounds. I looked good. Remember I am short so that is a good weight for me. After S, over time, I gained weight to 128 pounds. Everyone else still thought I looked good but I didn't. I was not huge, the girls who have seen me on the alt will say so (MT, Hope, BG). But I felt like the Pillsbury Doughboy. FAT FAT FAT!!!!!!
Last year, with bomb, me, getting sick, I started to lose weight. I am now 92 pounds. I FINALLY feel like I look good again. I finally don't feel like a big blob walking down the street. I do NOT want to put the weight back on. H and another mele friend think I look good but keep telling me that I could put some of the weight back on and would be ok. What they don't understand is that I wasn't ok that way. I don't want to hear that from them. I simply want them to support me as I am and not give me greif about eating.
You don't have to love what she wants but it sounds like she wants your support and approval to an extent. Don't worry about the $ don't even bring that into it. Let her worry about it. She may never have the surgery because of that alone. I would word disagreement as something like "it isn't something i would choose for myself but if it is something you want, even though I don't think it is necessary then I am behind you and I understand." Don't make everything a battle T. It just isn't necessary.
One other quick thought, I cut my hair a few months ago, to much opposition from some. I wanted it cut. Which comments meant the most to me afterward, not the one from H who said it looks choppy, but the one from another who said I liked it long, but it looks good. I do secretly agree with everyone, i miss it long but I needed the change and am now letting it grow again. Just a thought.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
I have a MILLION Dollar tan on one of my breasts! Can you top that?
Nearly TMI ..but I am amused nonetheless as you would expect a guy to be. I will et you guess what kinda guy I am.
Here I will give you a clue my darling has at the very least ..48 G's on top to carry around each and every day ..and don't I hear about how she would much rather not be endowed in sucha way.
Not to make light of it ..but almost sounds like a tanning salon mishap or something like that. MILLION $ tanned boob ..??
T-maybe it is. Let me tell you a quick story. When i was young I weighed 98 pounds. I looked good. Remember I am short so that is a good weight for me. After S, over time, I gained weight to 128 pounds. Everyone else still thought I looked good but I didn't. I was not huge, the girls who have seen me on the alt will say so (MT, Hope, BG). But I felt like the Pillsbury Doughboy. FAT FAT FAT!!!!!!
Last year, with bomb, me, getting sick, I started to lose weight. I am now 92 pounds. I FINALLY feel like I look good again. I finally don't feel like a big blob walking down the street. I do NOT want to put the weight back on. H and another mele friend think I look good but keep telling me that I could put some of the weight back on and would be ok. What they don't understand is that I wasn't ok that way. I don't want to hear that from them. I simply want them to support me as I am and not give me greif about eating.
You don't have to love what she wants but it sounds like she wants your support and approval to an extent. Don't worry about the $ don't even bring that into it. Let her worry about it. She may never have the surgery because of that alone. I would word disagreement as something like "it isn't something i would choose for myself but if it is something you want, even though I don't think it is necessary then I am behind you and I understand." Don't make everything a battle T. It just isn't necessary.
One other quick thought, I cut my hair a few months ago, to much opposition from some. I wanted it cut. Which comments meant the most to me afterward, not the one from H who said it looks choppy, but the one from another who said I liked it long, but it looks good. I do secretly agree with everyone, i miss it long but I needed the change and am now letting it grow again. Just a thought.
