H will get over it or he won't but you needed to do it for you. My H hates that I called the OWomen. But I had to for me. It was just my way of breaking their hold on me.
I too did something that was not great DBing. But it was a response to something H has said and although his reply was not jumping for joy, it was not negative either. H is working today and tomorrow. We will see what the weekend brings. But I am a big girl and I will get through all of this. I have actually reached one of my goals which was to not be angry with him anymore.
So it will be a good new year. I have to finish something and get my butt on the road to picking up son's bestfriend who has recently moved back to Florida. Haven't seen him in person for 2 and a half years so this will be an interesting 4 days. I see in my crystal ball, 2 teenage boys who are not going to sleep much and a mom who is gonna be very tired by the weekend. LOL
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
