here comes the sun.,...It will be alright

[Hope4us]

I take it no response yet then? I'm getting fairly close to the same point as you are Doc.

In my case I can't help but think that W is still in contact with OM, even if it's "just friends" in her mind so she doesn't see how that affects US. In her mind I see her as thinking if we were meant to be it shouldn't matter if she "just talks" to OM, but we all know a marriage has no chance as long as she hangs on to OM in any form.

Help me out again Doc, has your W gone completely NC?