Classic script Lost. You're controlling, it's your fault you told OMW, you're only thinking about yourself.

F that.

I would stand firm that if this is what she wants, there's the door. Of course she can see the kids how it's outlined in the S/D agreement, but that there will be no more conversations about this until she gets your response from your L.

One quote I've seen people use on another website is, "I don't talk D, that's up to the L's and I've been advised by my L to not discuss it with you. But if you want to talk about saving our marriage, I'm all ears" (or something to that affect).

I agree with Puppy and MC. It's time for her to go.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.