2008 = Crazy Year (Havin Fun @ 21?)

[marriedCrazy]

yes...SHE needs to leave.

That's my thought LIS. Good luck bro. I'll be thinking about you

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I agree.

Lost, her doing that all in front of your kids was unconscionable. And quite possibly abusive.

Puppy

[Hope4us]

Classic script Lost. You're controlling, it's your fault you told OMW, you're only thinking about yourself.

F that.

I would stand firm that if this is what she wants, there's the door. Of course she can see the kids how it's outlined in the S/D agreement, but that there will be no more conversations about this until she gets your response from your L.

One quote I've seen people use on another website is, "I don't talk D, that's up to the L's and I've been advised by my L to not discuss it with you. But if you want to talk about saving our marriage, I'm all ears" (or something to that affect).

I agree with Puppy and MC. It's time for her to go.

[lost_in_space]

MC, Puppy and H4U

Thanks guys. We all agree she needs to go - that is clear. H4U, I will use the L advice side for today's convo, which won't happen with the k's if they do not want to be there.

She has asked for excl possession of the house, so my resp is given that is in your petition now filed, it will be responded to in my L response and until the response is filed I have been advised to not to disc any aspects of the D further, incl any living arràngements. (Or something to that effect - re-reading, that doesn't come across the way I had wanted.)

[Tawnya]

{{{LIS}}} I don't get how the heck she thinks she should have the house if she's the one breaking up the family. I would be like heck no sister..unless, of course, you really wanted to say "sure, if you can pay me my half of the house I'll be glad to find something else for me and the kids", cause you know she can't do that..really I wouldn't do that..it was just me having an "evil" moment LOL

Ugh..her doing that with the kids right there and NOT letting them leave..WOW..I can't even think of what to say about that..man..I just picture this poor little guy wanting to get out of that convo and her saying no..that breaks my heart!!

{{{LIS}}}} Ugh..I hate you had an ambushed crummy evening!

Tawnya

[hopeful4her]

Randy, that is just F'd up!

I agree with Pup. She is emotionally abusive to the kids and both emotionally and physically to you.

She cannot control herself.

Don't have anymore of those discussions with her. The thing H4U said was perfect.

Praying for ya' bud. She is being evil and she is to be pitied.

Sorry dude. Stay strong.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Thanks guys. We all agree she needs to go - that is clear. H4U, I will use the L advice side for today's convo, which won't happen with the k's if they do not want to be there.

It shouldn't happen with the kids even if they DO want to be there. This is for the parents to handle, and it's horribly traumatizing to the kids to put them in the middle of these kinds of discussions when both parents are in their RIGHT minds, much less the way your wife is acting right now!

Puppy

[hopeful4her]

Agreed.

[lost_in_space]

Thanks guys. We all agree she needs to go - that is clear. H4U, I will use the L advice side for today's convo, which won't happen with the k's if they do not want to be there.

It shouldn't happen with the kids even if they DO want to be there. This is for the parents to handle, and it's horribly traumatizing to the kids to put them in the middle of these kinds of discussions when both parents are in their RIGHT minds, much less the way your wife is acting right now!

Puppy

Agreed!

This is all so WRONG!

W said something to me this morning - said "maybe you should stay at the office all day" (we are officially closed today but I had to come in for a bit). I said, "sorry, that wasn't in my plans".

Talked to L this morning - response will be sent early next week.

[hopeful4her]

Dude, the sooner you guys are separated, the better. She needs to go, whatever the cost. Even if you have to pay for it.

Your sitch is a ticking time bomb.