How long does it take to sort this chitt out is the problem.
how long does it take to sort this chitt out?? Marriage chitt???
forever Tim...it takes forever..I've always said you can't put a time limit on this and lots of people disagree with me on that..I think the best you can hope for through all this is getting though the tough spots where only one person works..in hopes that that non working person will have some type epithany and snap out of whatever ails them..be it OM/OP/MLC/ABCD or what ever initial they want to hang on their craziness..
so if she decided to commit tomorrow..your asss would still have to work as hard as you are working now...if not harder..
so to me there is no time limit and as I've said over and over..you will know when you are done..your little voice will let you know
