I'm glad I'm caught up and I have to agree that is wonderful news. I also completely agree w/ Purr that you are fighting for him by doing what you are doing. Don't stop or change.
Purr said his actions are "validating" the changes you've made for yourself, so keep them going. It has been said many, many times on several different posts that the one left behind has to move forward w/their life and work on changes that make themselves better. By doing this, you become stronger and healthier and if the one who left notices and wants to be a part of it, they'll catch up.
Your BF is noticing and is thinking of "catching up" so why in the world would you want to stop now? Keep moving in the same direction. It is working. You have caught his attention and he sees how "healthy" you are.
Good work. Keep it going (you may also want to call and talk w/Jody about this one too).
