in that department we are beyond exceptional for each other
but nothing else ever works. She will find a way to fight with me no matter what words come from my mouth. She is a born fighter. It is what she lives and breathes. ANd once she gets up a head of steam for fighting.. look out..it just escalates. I try to seek the pressure relief valve and there is none to be found. Her needs will never be met. She will not "really" let Jesus in to help meet those needs for her. She turns to me for everything and that is an impossible thing for me to have any chance to fulfill