if I had a penny for each time we all wished the H's would've said how unhappy they were... it's a such a common occurrence on this board you got no idea...
I'ts barely Dec, do NOT loose hope, it is way too early, despite that my own M didnt' survive the second time my H left, I hanged on for 8mths and he did come back (if he didnt' have mental problems we prob would've made it)

It's way too early to give up, I know the pain is unbearable and that you dont' see yourself like this after a month or so, but do not loose hope, take it one hr at a time if you must, but know that you will be ok and that you will make it...even if he doesn't come back.

I too agree with MLC, his excuses sound flimsy, that's what MLC do, rewrite history and just come up with excuses out of thin air.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.