I just wanted to chime in a tell you how incredibly sorry I am that it has come to this. Knowing how hard you worked for your Marriage, and how much you have given.
You are a kind and loving person to each and every one of us on this board, and we thank you. Someday someone will benefit from that and she will be a very lucky woman.
I will pray for you and your family and sending Huge hugs your way...
((((((((puppy)))))))
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
My wife and I are meeting with a mediator next Monday. It should be interesting, as my wife is pretty clueless about our financial situation, and I think she has her head in a clouds as to what I can afford in the way of spousal support.
We still haven't told our boys; that comes after New Year's. It's going to be rough.
{{{{PDT}}}}}}} Ugh man..I just wish I had a wand to wave to make all of the crap go away and you get into the smooth sailing part of this storm my friend!
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
((((((Puppy))))). I would give you a real one if I was closer. I wish I could make it not happen for you but we all know I am no magician. I am, along with everyone else, here for you hon.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I really am sorry that you are going through this. Just remember, you will get through this awful time and there will be better times ahead. I know that's very cliche, but it really is the truth. God has only good plans for those who love him.
We have decided to do a Retrovaille weekend before filing.
I will have more later. Had a long, long, LONG talk today -- about EVERYTHING. Bottom line is that we agreed we hadn't given it NEAR enough effort before packing it in.
