Despite reading the Evans book - she still insists on telling me what I'm thinking - and what my motivations are for my actions...when we were still talking - she would usually follow up those words by accusing me of telling her what she is thinking or doing...so she is in her a whirlwind of her own making.
My H used to do that too. I took it as a "well, so are you" retort.
I would say, "What you said sounded like you were telling me my motivations. If what you said isn't what you think, please rephrase it."
She probably isn't going to acknowledge the mindreading, but by calling her on it, it at least has a chance to come into her consciousness.
