No advice. Don't know how anyone could give advice on this.
Its been on my mind too. Moving on with someone else. I don't have anyone in mind, but I figure someday if things don't change in my R, someone will come along who values me and what would I do when/if that happens.
Reading your conversation it seems that you handled it with grace and honestly by telling your H about J. That is how I imagined something might happen with me as well. I also imagined if I told my H about someone else and there was no reaction, that would be my answer.
Married - 19 years Noticed Problem - Aug 2008 THE Conversation - Oct 2008
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
