Hi Michelle...stopping by to catch up. Sounds like you are handling all of this with dignity and grace.
I do have a question though. If H came back right now and wanted you back, would you go?
You have come so far, and done so well. I know this isn't something you wanted, but I saw someone who posted that you and your H have come so far past the R that maybe, just maybe, this is for the better.
In the meantime, enjoy R. I am glad you have found someone that your puppy likes and you are enjoying spending time w/!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Bar exam is February 24, 25, 26. 8 to 5 each day. Ugh.
H is not in a position where I could work on anything with him I think. He still doesn't see how much work both of us would have to do, and unless he was willing to commit to really giving things a try, not seeing anyone else, being very transparent with me, continuing his IC, and starting MC...no chance.
Don't see that happening.
H IMd me tonight. He's broke and moving back in with his parents. Thanks goodness he has a place to move to. His family is great.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
What happened to the "woman" he was seeing who cut herself repeatedly? I am really surprised that that didn't work out!
As I said to you last year, he is going to crash and burn and really hit bottom. This is the beginning of a huge corkscrew into the earth! You on the other hand, have got it "all goin' on"!
I will be kissing my pillow....LOL even D12 is w/ XH...
I can dream I am kissing Matthew McConaunghey (sp????)
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..